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Official Obituary of

Eleanor C. Hoffman Hayden

November 9, 1929 ~ February 5, 2023 (age 93) 93 Years Old

Eleanor Hoffman Hayden Obituary

Eleanor C. Hoffman Hayden, 93, of South Amboy died on Sunday February 5, 2023 at Riverview Medical Center, Red Bank. Born in Hackensack she was previously employed as a hairstylist. A devoted mother and grandmother, she enjoyed cooking and collecting cookbooks and loved spending time with her family.

Daughter of the late Joseph and Ella Hoffman she is also predeceased by her husband Gerald Hayden in 2000; her son Robert O’Toole; her daughter Kathleen Khalil; her brother Joseph Hoffman and her sister Frances Ravallo. She is survived by her son and daughter-in-law William and Michele O’Toole of Hazlet; her daughter and son-in-law Janet and Kevin Nealon of Mantua; her daughter-in-law Monica Glenn and her husband Randy of Middletown; her grandchildren Colin Redmond and his wife Vira, Monica O’Toole, Kathleen Hartley and her husband Sean, Brittany Ruotilio, Christine Khalil and her fiancé Anthony, Taylor Ruotilio and Austin Nealon and her great-grandchildren Connor Redmond, Christopher and Samantha Albanese, Kymber Hartley and Theresa Murphy.

A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be offered on Thursday February 9, 2023 at 9:30am at St. Bernadette’s Church, 20 Villanova Road, Parlin followed by interment in Christ Church Cemetery, South Amboy. Cremation was private under the direction of The Gundrum Service “Home For Funerals” 237 Bordentown Avenue, South Amboy. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

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Services

Memorial Mass
Thursday
February 9, 2023

9:30 AM
St. Bernadette's Church
20 Villanova Road
Parlin, NJ 08859

Interment
Thursday
February 9, 2023

Christ Church Cemetery
Pine Avenue
South Amboy, NJ 08879

Cremation

Donations

St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
501 St. Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105
Tel: 1-800-805-5856
Web: http://www.stjude.org/

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